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THIS week Fabulous whisked Naomi Ostroff and Danny Webster off for cocktails in London Bridge.
Our love gurus Alix Fox and Paul Thomas Bell watched the romance unfold and revealed the secret signals the pair gave off that shows how they really felt. And their tips might just help you with your dating dramas...
Naomi Ostroff, 34, is a marketing and events assistant from London. She says: "Unfortunately, I wasn’t instantly attracted to Danny. He’s not the kind of guy I usually go for.
"He greeted me with a handshake and I thought he looked a little too old for me. I’m not sure how old he actually is!
"But when we started chatting I found we shared a few similar interests. We both love relaxing in the countryside, dance and music. He’s a radio DJ and has a very varied music taste. He said he’s recently been to see Neil Diamond and Britney Spears!
"He admitted he often goes to concerts and gigs alone as he has no one to go with. That is slightly concerning. Does he not have many friends?
He goes to gigs alone as he has no one to go with. That is slightly concerning
Naomi Ostroff
"I’ve been properly single for three months. I had an on-off relationship with a guy for the last couple of years, but I was still seeing other people during that time. My ideal guy is someone tall and good looking. Isn’t that what everyone wants?
"Danny said he prefers girls with darker hair. I’m a brunette so that was a flirty admission. I want a man who is confident, outgoing and personable. There were a couple of awkward moments during our date before moving from one conversation to another. We were probably both a bit nervous.
"The truth is, I think I knew from the off that Danny isn’t my type. He does seem like a really nice guy, though. I liked that he appreciates good character traits in a girl – it’s not just about looks for him.
"He asked for my number and I’m really bad at saying no so I gave it to him. We discussed a second date but I’m not sure if it will happen."
Score: 6
Danny Webster, 34, is a radio presenter and DJ from Birmingham. He says: "I’ve been single for five years now and only recently got the confidence to go out and meet people. There was a girl I really like but she ghosted me. I’d buy tickets for concerts and she’d pull out at the last minute. It knocked me back really.
"When Naomi arrived I thought she looked delightful. I like girls with brunette hair, they're more mysterious and seem to be on my level. Naomi had a nice smile and dressed quite funky. She seemed very individualistic.
"We chatted a lot about music, travel and our careers – I’m a workaholic. I’m a radio presenter and there were time I fell into work mode and seemed to be asking all the questions. The conversation did dry up a bit. I tried to keep it flowing without repeating myself or being boring.
The conversation did dry up a bit
Danny Webster
"I’m coming to the age where all of my friends have got kids and have settled down. I am ready to have that now.
"My last proper relationship ended because I like my own space and she wanted to move in. I wasn’t ready to commit. I'm older and ready for all of that now.
"I hope I see Naomi again. The only thing that could stand in the way is the distance – she lives in London and I’m in Birmingham. I’d like a second date. I’ve looked up the six best places to go for cocktails in London. I’d like to take her somewhere different."
Score: 9
Meet our Fabulous love gurus Alix Fox and Paul Thomas Bell
Alix says: “I’m not sure sparks were flying during this date. Naomi looked down a lot, which is a sign of discomfort. And, she had her legs crossed – this indicates a closed and reserved attitude. I think they both seem like really pleasant and sweet people, but unfortunately not a match.”
Paul says: “The first thing Danny told Naomi was that he’s a workaholic – that’s a bit of a negative thing to put out there. He also mentioned that he goes on dates but nothing comes of them. There’s a time and a place to say certain things, and some of the things Danny said is not first date material. He nodded his head a lot – a sign of enthusiasm – and had his hands on his knees, which shows a desire to engage. I feel like Danny needs to meet someone exactly like Danny. I don’t think Naomi is a match for him.”
Watch an extended version of Naomi and Danny's date and catch up on previous episodes on our channel.
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